Where are you? On the edge, perhaps...

The other day I was at the pool with my kids. I had not planned to get in so I was playing from the edge throwing the frisbee and completely content with my decision to stay by the edge. 

Then I hear a giggle from behind me and before I know it, I’m struggling to keep my balance so I don’t fall in the pool...with ALL my clothes on. 

Cue the slow motion video. I tried so hard to keep my feet on the edge but gravity called me elsewhere. And there I went. Fully submerged, soaking wet with ALL my clothes on! 

The typical response from me would be,”That’s it! The culprit will be sitting out the rest of our pool time!!” 

My daughter’s face across the pool was shocked. I could see in her eyes the dilemma, “I want to laugh...but she might be steaming hot. Let’s just wait this one out.” 

The Lord knew what my children and I needed in that moment. My full involvement, some fun and lots of grace. So I did...I laughed. Not my plan for the day. 

But I chose to be present. To have fun. To connect. To show grace.

Maybe you’ve entered the pool area of foster care. Not yet playing by the edge but you’re considering. 

Perhaps you are on the edge thinking you’re safe right where you are. You’ve started the hard conversations and even training. 

My friend, it’s not until we jump in, fully submerge ourselves in the lives of another do we find the joy of surrender. We might need a little push to help us, whether it’s a spouse, a friend, or a story that breaks our hearts.

Whenever and however you get in the pool, you must trust that it is perfect timing. You’re right where you’re supposed to be. 

It feels awkward, and heavy, and leaves you a bit confused in the emotional arena. But once you’re fully submerged you’ll be able to look into the face of a child that’s just as shocked as you by the current circumstances and they’ll need your presence, your joy, your connection. And lots of grace.